Last year as summer came to a close, I wrote a bit about my struggles with long breaks from school, those wretched summer bucket lists (if you do them, high five!), and my mixed feelings about sending two little girls off to school.
This year I was a tad more settled and at home in my own summer mom skin. That meant fewer planned activities and more flying by the seat of our pants, and it suited them and me just fine. Our weeks peeled off the calendar so quickly I’m having trouble remembering exactly how we filled the days. There was potty training. (Truly, I counted the summer a smashing success once that week was over. Done! I’m out! To-do list complete!) There were day camps and a handful of playdates. Lots of painting and coloring. TV- and movie-watching (this is real life). A sleepover. Swimming at grandparents’ houses and the community pool, and attempting to swim in the inflatable thing we picked up from Target. One—one!—trip to the beach. A birthday trip to the American Girl store.
But for the last week or so, fourth grade and preschool have been calling these girls’ names. New lunchboxes have been selected. Class lists have been posted. Both are thrilled that the start of school is now just a few short days away.
So am I. I am excited for them, and frankly, I am excited for me.
Is that okay to publicly acknowledge? I hope so.
But before I shuffle them out the door next week and maybe do a little dance, I want to pray them off. This is the same prayer I shared last year (with slight adjustments—after all, we’re three and nine now). Feel free to borrow it for your own littles and know they are in good hands while they’re away from you, mamas.
(God’s, to be clear. Also, their teachers’—but I was talking about God’s.)
Lord, hold their sweet, soft hands as they step into the new and different.
Make their hearts tender and sensitive to the feelings of others—both their peers and their teachers.
Remind them of Your Word, tucked safely in their hearts and minds.
Give them eyes to see the child who needs a friend.
Make them bold enough to be that friend.
Help them to make thoughtful choices.
Fill them with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control.
Help them to give themselves grace when they make mistakes.
Guide them in their I’m sorrys. May they extend grace to others and forgive freely.
Open their minds to all that You have to teach them this year. Help them to soak up knowledge and grow in wisdom and in their love for You.
Help them to be kind-hearted and to serve, even when it’s hard.
May whatever they do—from finger-painting and building with blocks to writing book reports and performing in class plays—be done with their whole hearts.
Lord, make them brave.
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